A first response, not a last resort.
If it's not a challenge, it's just not any fun. Perhaps life is the same way . . .
I am, because I am.
When we set a goal, we set an intention. When we have expectations, we create resentments. When we are of service to others, we are blessing ourselves. When we let go of our will, we unlock our chains. When we surrender, we learn to fly.